ソフィア・ブッシュのインスタグラム(sophiabush) - 2月8日 00時31分

Last night at @makerswomen, I watched some truly incredible women speak on topics relevant to all of us. It got me thinking, as we press forward in a time when many important conversations are being yanked out of the shadows and into the light, as we talk about sexual health, permission, consent — YO! Consent is sexy! — and more, there’s something else we really need to touch on. Pleasure. Let’s say it again. PLEASURE.
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Did y’all know that the CDC has REMOVED the word “pleasure” from the definition of sex?? What batshit bananas nonsense is this, you ask? I know! @estherperelofficial shared that with the audience last night. (The WHO still uses it as a defining term but here at home we are literally erasing the idea of pleasure from sex.) And you know who that hurts most? Yah. WOMEN. Men are taught to pursue pleasure. But women? The data shows we are generally taught shame. Self-loathing. That sex is something our partners/neighbors/strangers are trying to TAKE from us. Men are taught to GET. We are taught to hide/withhold/fear. Well, everyone in the room last night co-signed a great big “fuck that” to this archaic idea. Sex is healthy. Sex is meant to be pleasurable & fun and expanding and intimate. (And obvs not only heteronormative.) You are allowed to say no. And you are also allowed to emphatically say YES! PS. maybe only have it if/when it’s a yes with a capital Y and an exclamation point!? Like “Yes!” You deserve that! OK cool
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So. What does changing the conversation around pleasure & permission look like? Well, @trystnetwork is working on that! They have a theory that it all starts with giving ourselves permission to really know & accept & understand our own bodies. Cuz ladies. Our bodies are bomb. In all shapes & sizes. Colors. Smells. Ages. Our bodies do amazing things. It’s time we stop being afraid to understand them. To look at ‘em! So check out the awesome video series #linkinbio that @trystnetwork is launching with @チェルシー・ハンドラー & @ジェシカ・ビール. Check yourself out. And then take it a step further & check out Tryst’s resources. Empowerment starts at home. From within. In the lady garden. Get it? #TrystNetwork @wcgcares #LINKINBIO

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