アンジー・ハーモンのインスタグラム(angieharmon) - 3月10日 02時29分
I feel like this post is worth more than being a flash in my story... I feel it’s something to read & absorb & come back to continually.
And I would like to be clear about something that I really feel needs to be said... I am so thrilled for where we are now as women… How the women before us have paved the road for the amazing changes that are happening now!
It does, however, make me sad to see some of us giving in to what the weaker version of what being a “feminist“ means.
A feminist is not a woman that hates men… And believe me, I have had my fair share of hating the opposite sex. I’m not proud of it but I can admit it. It takes strength to recognize and appreciate men for who they are and what they do. Most of us have been deeply hurt by men and that is wrong and not to be overlooked. BUT IT IS OUR DUTY AS WOMEN to put forth the example of forgiveness and kindness as feminists. It is our duty to not give in to the anger or the hate but to overcome it. PERIOD.
I can’t imagine that it’s easy to be a man especially in this time… We must lead with a velvet hand instead of a metal claw… We must be confident in the fact that we know we are a force to be reckoned with... we don’t have to shout it from the mountain tops... we just have to know it and act accordingly. Gently. Lovingly. Seeing the good & greatness in man just as we are asking/demanding they see in us.
Treat others as you would want to be treated... it is our duty. #loveyou #loveothers #wereallinthistogether Thank you @farmercarla for the post!
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shawnpuffybalint
It is important to remember not all men are pigs, but as a guy who is protective of women (that might sound wrong to some but it’s based on being on lots of intel from all guy conversations) treat them as individuals. I’ve seen the worst of women but thanks to great female friends it made me realize holding a gender accountable for the actions of the few lets those few that wronged me off the hook. I think we knew need to teach boys how to treat girls and not just “get the girl”. It’s sad to see how hard women are on themselves and the pressure from outside and within. There’s too much pressure to achieve the unrealistic standard of always being happy. I haven’t succeeded in relationships but I take pride that I was interested and invested in “her” happiness for her sake not mine because I cared about her and I took things that happened to her personally dating back to when she was a little girl. You’re the best Angie.
goncalomanuelcupertino
@angieharmon I'm sorry for your divorce, I only knew about it know!... In any case, since your former husband was already divorced from a previous marriage, I presume his first marriage was a Religious Matrimony and yours couldn't be and wasn't, unless there was some form of anullment, that you might still get now.
carolinabardivia
Why is our duty TO always be kind ... i do understaind What you saying but its not the reallity for many womans. Here in Brazil 12 womans die in a day,
victims of femicide, killed by their partners, killed for being women... i just wanna say what i think about , i really like and admite you @angieharmon
tom.stearns
I can only say again, I love the spirit you bring in your postings. I love the love you shower on your friends a family. And love and appreciate the emphasis you place on forgiveness and the importance of living a Christ-like life, even when it's hard. God bless, Angie Ha
sapeurpompier120
@angieharmon Alfred de vigny wrote, after studying the condition of women in all times and in all countries, I came to the conclusion that instead of saying "Hello", we should ask them " I apologize "
cwissyrissy.walker
Women have been the underdogs for so long but we are emerging into the beautiful , strong and gifted people we deserve to be. We are United and strong. ❤️😍
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