アンナ・パキンのインスタグラム(_annapaquin) - 3月12日 04時20分
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Have you or someone you know been affected by #DomesticViolence?
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mommyrockbottom
I'm a mama of 3. We are survivors of domestic violence. My daughter was sexually abused at the hands of her biological father. I found out when she was 7.. I believe the abuse started when she was in diapers. I didn't know. I was our income. I thought I loved him, but there was a party of him that I couldn't even see. I still blame myself a lot for not being home to protect her.. Now my daughter is almost 13 and we visit the therapist on a weekly basis. After invasive forensic examinations, doctor visits, and interviews with cold protection, my tiny 7 year old daughter had to TESTIFY IN COURT, against her own father, who represented himself. He was even able to question her. It was an extremely trying time. Extremely traumatic for a 7 year old. It was traumatic for ME... May daughter was given a1 year restraining order against her father. They said they could not charge him because there was no PHYSICAL EVIDENCE. And because she was only 7 at the time, the court deemed her a non-credible source. He walked away. My daughter and I have struggled for years now...... she, with anger, outbursts, self worth.. me, with letting go of the past... Leaving the memories where they belong, in the past. Letting go of the guilt... Letting go of what I could not control... Feeling the pain, but not letting it hold me back. Knowing that my little girl did not get the Justice she deserves is always hard for me to choke on.... And the fact that he walked away from ruining my daughter's life makes me sick. After my daughter got her restraining order, he went on to offend again.... He was given 5 years of probation.... But he took off and is now MIA with a warrant out for his arrest... I just keep hoping that one of these days Justice will find it's way to him.
mommyrockbottom
I'm a mama of 3. We are survivors of domestic violence. My daughter was sexually abused at the hands of her biological father. I found out when she was 7.. I believe the abuse started when she was in diapers. I didn't know. I was our income. I thought I loved him, but there was a party of him that I couldn't even see. I still blame myself a lot for not being home to protect her.. Now my daughter is almost 13 and we visit the therapist on a weekly basis. After invasive forensic examinations, doctor visits, and interviews with cold protection, my tiny 7 year old daughter had to TESTIFY IN COURT, against her own father, who represented himself. He was even able to question her. It was an extremely trying time. Extremely traumatic for a 7 year old. It was traumatic for ME... May daughter was given a1 year restraining order against her father. They said they could not charge him because there was no PHYSICAL EVIDENCE. And because she was only 7 at the time, the court deemed her a non-credible source. He walked away. My daughter and I have struggled for years now...... she, with anger, outbursts, self worth.. me, with letting go of the past... Leaving the memories where they belong, in the past. Letting go of the guilt... Letting go of what I could not control... Feeling the pain, but not letting it hold me back. Knowing that my little girl did not get the Justice she deserves is always hard for me to choke on.... And the fact that he walked away from ruining my daughter's life makes me sick. After my daughter got her restraining order, he went on to offend again.... He was given 5 years of probation.... But he took off and is now MIA with a warrant out for his arrest... I just keep hoping that one of these days Justice will find it's way to him.
sarahmca22
@_annapaquin I am a sexual abuse survivor. I carry no shame anymore, but I did for a long time without even knowing it because every time I told someone they looked at me differently. I was molested first by my uncle at age 5, told my mother immediately after it happened and she laughed and said, “that didn’t happen.” Between the ages of 5-11 I was molested by a number of males ranging from ages 15-30. Sadly older adults in my family knew and rather than confront the perpetrator they would tell me a little girl to stop the “hanky panky”!! Wtf is that?!?! I’m all grown up now and those experiences have forever changed me in ways, both good and bad. I don’t feel sorry for myself, it sucks, but it happened. Today I move forward with positivity and awareness for my own children as well as others. ♥️
deathcab4cassie
My ex and I were together 4.5 years. What began as a few small remarks turned ugly fast. The saying "love is blind" is true, because my ex was extremely verbally abusive. I always made excuses. "Oh he just had a bad day at work" or "he's hangry ". But that wasn't it. He would yell at me, belittle me, body shame me. He screamed at me so loud on several occasions my neighbors asked if he was hitting me. Funny thing is they never called the cops. The last year of our relationship was me trying to think of a way out. I was scared of how he would react. It's been 2 years. I can see it all now. I feel lucky. I believe he will hurt someone @_annapaquin
ckrzywonski
I survived. ❤️ I remember the last fight. I remember him throwing his cell phone at my face and it grazing my hair, slamming into the wall, and falling to pieces. I remember him grabbing me by the head and headbutting me so hard that everything went black and I woke up on the floor. Although I hate to admit it I remember crying on my knees and still begging him to stay. Believing...it was all my fault. I'm still a work in progress but I'll tell you what I'm not, I'm NOT a victim. I am a stronger, powerful, more capable, and extraordinary woman. NO ONE will EVER bring me that low again.
celticsmithy
My first story began at youth summer camp. I trusted a male counselor and said he had something for me in his cabin. I was 7. When we got there, he began to strip and forced me onto his cot. He said if I moved or screamed, he’d put me in his clothes chest and dump me in the ocean. I barely managed to get away. The worst part. I had to sit next to him on the bus ride home when camp ended. He offered me a sweet-tart and I took it. It felt wrong to take it but I was afraid of him. I told no one. I was fucking 7.
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