トリー・ウィルソンのインスタグラム(torriewilson) - 6月13日 06時10分
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As confident as I would like to think I’ve always been..
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If I told you how many times I’ve gotten caught up..trying to fit into a mold that wasn’t even me - for the sake of being better liked...omg.
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The times I tried to fit a mold that someone else preferred; so I could fit in, be liked, be included in the cool party, even not be cheated on! .
Reality is we’ve all done this at some point. Not all of us admit it. (Consciously & unconsciously.)
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Full transparency, sometimes I still catch myself doing this around certain people I feel judged by. My problem, NOT theirs. .
How does it make me feel?
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✅ Inferior to others
✅ Even less cool
✅ More of an outsider
✅ Weak
✅ Yearning to find my REAL ppl
✅ Disappointed in self
✅ Lonely
✅ Depressed
✅ Anxious
✅ Even less worthy
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The biggest lessons I’ve learned thru time?
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It’s not even fun trying to fit in with ppl who I have to impress. Would rather sit at home alone than be surrounded by 50 of the “coolest” jerks at the coolest party.
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Your people will find you.
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We can’t be everything to everyone..so start with being everything you ARE to yourself first.
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Cheaters will be cheating regardless of what you try to do or not do, and they will continue the pattern with the next person after you smarten up.
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We become so much more POWERFUL and fun to be around when we just own who we are.
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Anyone you have to alter yourself to be accepted by is the person who needs help, not you.
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We are usually much cooler ourselves than those we are trying to impress.
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Being around ppl who appreciate you for who you are is a game changer.
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Be you. It’s be-YOU-tiful!
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