トリー・ウィルソンさんのインスタグラム写真 - (トリー・ウィルソンInstagram)「. As confident as I would like to think I’ve always been.. . If I told you how many times I’ve gotten caught up..trying to fit into a mold that wasn’t even me - for the sake of being better liked...omg. . The times I tried to fit a mold that someone else preferred; so I could fit in, be liked, be included in the cool party, even not be cheated on! . Reality is we’ve all done this at some point. Not all of us admit it. (Consciously & unconsciously.) . Full transparency, sometimes I still catch myself doing this around certain people I feel judged by. My problem, NOT theirs. . How does it make me feel? . ✅ Inferior to others ✅ Even less cool ✅ More of an outsider ✅ Weak ✅ Yearning to find my REAL ppl ✅ Disappointed in self ✅ Lonely ✅ Depressed ✅ Anxious ✅ Even less worthy . The biggest lessons I’ve learned thru time? . It’s not even fun trying to fit in with ppl who I have to impress. Would rather sit at home alone than be surrounded by 50 of the “coolest” jerks at the coolest party. . Your people will find you. . We can’t be everything to everyone..so start with being everything you ARE to yourself first. . Cheaters will be cheating regardless of what you try to do or not do, and they will continue the pattern with the next person after you smarten up. . We become so much more POWERFUL and fun to be around when we just own who we are. . Anyone you have to alter yourself to be accepted by is the person who needs help, not you. . We are usually much cooler ourselves than those we are trying to impress. . Being around ppl who appreciate you for who you are is a game changer. . Be you. It’s be-YOU-tiful!」6月13日 6時10分