ケイト・ベッキンセイルのインスタグラム(katebeckinsale) - 6月15日 18時41分

Don’t be fooled by “children are resilient”. This is my mother and me attending the “celebration of life “ memorial service for my dad. I look fine. I was shattered, heartbroken and shocked.Every time Father’s Day comes around I remember my father with such love and longing ,and I remember the deep shame, loneliness and self loathing when I was excused from aged 5 onwards from making Father’s Day cards at school. I didn’t know anyone else who had lost a parent and there was no number to call to find advice on how to support grieving children . @kelliauerbach sent me her @the_newyork_times article about losing both her parents before the age of 20. It’s moving and beautifully written and I really advise reading it,if Father’s Day (or Mother’s Day ) is a painful issue for you or your children. The amount of shame children carry for having a dead parent is astonishing . Resources such as the National Alliance for Grieving Children (@childrengrieve )at childrengrieve.org in the US and Winston’s wish at winstonswish.org ( @winstonswish )in the UK give invaluable support to kids in this position, at a time when the rest of the family are grieving themselves. Big hugs to everyone who feels like shit as this lovely holiday comes around . You may not be able to buy a card . You’re in the Dead Fathers Club that none of us wanted to join and yet here we all are. I’m glad we have each other . Love to all xx

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onlybellagigi Dear Kate, i read your message aboit fathers day. When it comes i never think of my dad. I almost died from not having working kidneys. Doctor told my dad he was the perfect match. My dad walked away from me and my mom that day in the hospital. Doctor said i probably wouldnt live with a kidney. The day my dad walked out my life, i thought i was going to face death. I was blessed to get a kidney ftom a donor. I never saw my dad again. He couldnt have loved me. He left me to die. I am so grateful and happy i got a kidney from a donor. My mom is gone as well. I count my blessings im alive. Excuse me, u cant see im crying. Im happy and lucky to be alive. I know some people dont donate their organs when they die but im happy someone donated their kidneys to me.

cherylwicz THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for sharing this! Two years ago, my husband died suddenly - leaving me and our then 5 year old in utter shock...I have heard the phrase several times that “Children are resilient” and it always baffles me. You, like my son, obviously love and looked up to your dad as “untouchable”.....I used to worry that all the happy memories from their short time together would be overshadowed by the memory of his death - I no longer worry so much about the things I can’t control but do my best so my son will never forget how much his daddy loved him....I hope you never forget how much your dad loved you and how truly proud he must be of you!!! Sending you love and lots of hugs!!

vancouverblackcat Sorry to read that. It's always hard to lose a parent but especially at a young age. My mother died in a fire when I was 14. This year it will be 14 years ago, which means I have known her exactly half of my life. Everytime I think about her I feel ashamed, because I don't even have good memories of her. At school, some people said it was my fault, some teachers told me if I felt bad, they would call my mom to drive me home. No one talked to me at her funeral. The last time I heard her voice, she was stuck in the house in fire and screamed "I am going to die". Nobody, even in my family, took the time to listen to my part of the story. But her voice is still haunting.

kamehameha0000 I’m a single father, my son never has never met his mother. His teachers would let him make me something for Mother’s Day, just so he wouldn’t feel even more awkward. It kills me think of how he must feel surrounded by kids with there mom and dads in there lives. Even though I know her not being here is the best thing for him it’s still breaks my heart. That’s why I go beyond what to parents would, I give him more love and attention then anyone can. I hope one day when I’m gone he’ll look back and know even if his mom wasn’t here he had a dad that loved him more then the world and would do anything for him.

printbypam @katebeckinsale my friend lost her husband at age 27. They had a 2 year old daughter and a newborn. The courage and bravery in my friend, who despite her tragedy, founded @halochildrensfoundation a Charity that helps bereaved children and their families. In the last 5 years she has helped so many little kids who have lost a parent. She is a true Hero! I would love if you can kindly acknowledge her for the outstanding work she does xx

jonathan.doran.7 @katebeckinsale so terribly sorry about the loss of your father, at such a young age (both for you and for him). I cannot properly fathom what you had to endure, at such an age and with limited resources for grief. I lost my father, a Vietnam War veteran, in September 2017. I was nearly 38 at the time, but it still hurts and saddens me deeply. I hope you had a fabulous weekend, despite the day that Sunday was used to celebrate.

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