デヴィッド・スペードのインスタグラム(davidspade) - 6月30日 04時22分
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ohlookitsdeb
@ohbeast420 Funny that you find yourself justified in victim-blaming women (who are not the intricacies of domestic violence, by the way.) What I know to be true is this: abusive relationships feed upon the element of control. Victims are isolated from their support systems, gaslighted (so that they believe that some magical adjustment to their behavior will stop the cycle, which they are convinced by the abuser that they deserve), their loved ones are threatened if they try to out their abuser, or leave them. Authorities only remove the abuser for the day - once they return, they will be angrier and more dangerous. And, often, there are children involved. How do I know all this? Because, again, this was my life. So, yes, I reiterate: please do some more research before you weigh in again. Thank you.
ohlookitsdeb
@ohbeast420 As a survivor yourself, why on earth would you have contempt, rather than compassion, for those in similar situations? I'm glad that were able to safely extricate yourself and your children from danger, but surely you must comprehend that everyone's circumstances are different? Your energies would be put to much better use helping other survivors, rather than beating them up for having less means than you had.
ohbeast420
@ohlookitsdeb beating the up? Wow what a choice of words. Clearly you didn't understand what I wrote. Take it how you want. All I stated was that she chose to stay with him and could've left at anytime. Just like anyone else in an abusive relationship you have a choice. Most just stay which is sad.
ohbeast420
@ohlookitsdeb I need a deeper understanding? LMFAO. The women stayed with him how many years? That's on her. At some point you ladies need to take the blame for yourselves. I hear of alot of abuse. But it's always the women that stays. So now is it on him?
ohbeast420
@ohlookitsdeb no I don't need research I've been a victim myself. But being a male it's ok I guess. I removed myself and my children. Sucks you went through that. But same time. You had options like everyone else does.
ohlookitsdeb
@ohbeast420 Whether you personally approve of her or not, no one deserves to be abused. And for you to make statement like that means that you need a deeper understanding of the psychology of abuse.
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