ラッシャッド・ジェニングスのインスタグラム(rashadjennings) - 8月9日 11時01分
- If the dream you’re pursuing demands a great deal of your time. How do you balance the grind and spending quality time with loved ones? #TBT #ShadQuery
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anna.kaylee
At the end of the day, your people are the ones who will have your back no matter what - but they won’t always be there. I grind and always try to be the best version of myself because of them & the values and morals they instilled within me. Although it is essentially the life I make for myself (& my time and ‘grind’), anything I do will reflect upon them - positive or negative. Especially in today’s world - it always goes back somehow, someway to “oh wow, their parents must’ve raised them... x,y,z” most of the time (hopefully all but that isn’t always true!!), your loved ones want to see you succeed to the greatest heights, so being open and sharing your successes and struggles with them when possible, helps them to feel included, but also gives you time to continue to maintain your focus and grind, while also creating that bracket of quality time. To summarize that, lol, I do my best to incorporate my loved ones, family AND friends, into my daily life, by updates, phone calls, pictures & visits as much as time allows. If someone or something is important to you, you’ll find time & make the conscious effort to include the loved ones in any level of life event. 😊🤷🏼♀️
baseballmombfla
After living in 9 states, (no military) away from family and friends, I learned quickly how to balance, & have Quality Time!▪My balance was face timing Jesus, daily and allowing him to lead me!▪I never really needed any reassurance, because I had him!▪My problem was "Trusting People,"!▪When I hear Co-workers say, "We're all Family" ☝️"Stop Lying".. you're in competition with each other, but they continue to Smile"😏 while waiting to give you that Pat on da-Back!▪There's an old saying, "Smiling faces pretend to be your Friend, They don't tell the Truth"!▪Anyway after living in 9 states, I can emphasize with the NFL, NBA, MLB players, when they get traded! One day your here, the next day you're moving, and trying to figure out "Why"..why me!▪If your not strong enough, one can go into deep Depression!▪Having Jesus for that balance, made me a stronger person! An in return I was able to pass my strength onto my children! 🗣Take No Prisoners! 😌
eastcoast319
Wow! Just listening to a little snidbit of that kind of hit home for me. I spend so much time working so hard trying to make sure I'll be ok, my mom will be ok, my brother will be ok that I lost countless moments with those I love. Family & friends. And even burying my son and his dad at a young age would have instilled tomorrow is never promised, yet still I drown myself in working hard to achieve these goals. But as Ive watched time fly by me and as I meet the countless patients I take care of and their families I realize all life ends up being is memories.... . I started to make a change again, but i need to do better. Thanks for posting this!
dreamchaser3000_atx
I have one day set aside on the weekends to be with my peeps. And I also make time to have dinner once or twice a week with them. I put aside things I’m working on to focus on those close to me. These are the people that support and encourage me through everything I do. What I do not want is to be so absorbed in what I am doing that I have lost time that I can’t get back. Nothing is more important than your loved ones. I always hear people around me say they don’t have time. That’s because they need to make time if they really want to. Out of 168 hours in a week, is it too much to give your loved ones 10 of those hours? 😁
carriepray7729
I’m trying to be intentional and fully present in the moment...not rushing off somewhere in my mind or on my phone...Busyness is a thief that is never satisfied...I can do everything and not do anything or just enough to keep me chasing more.... I check in and ask,why am I doing this? What are my motives? Should I be doing this? By shifting my perspective, the heaviness of self-focus falls away and the beautiful simplicity of a less cluttered life allows more quality time with my Loved Ones...something I’ve wanted all along. After all, I never want my Loved Ones to feel that I’m “too busy” for them.
mystoryj
Absolutely understand! It's a very hard balance. I had to choose when I had my son. But I chose to settle for less so I wouldn't miss precious moments with him that I'd never get back. It takes longer to build that way but I wouldn't change a thing. Now that he's older he can understand a little better but if I'm ever gone too long he definitely lets me know and I have to find the time to make up for it. But im sure your family loves and appreciate you for it. Plus, your still young, so lord willing, you still have time to enjoy them. ❤️
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