Ashley Jamesさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Ashley JamesInstagram)「What I've come to realise is that every single pregnancy is so unique, so don't compare your journey to anybody else's and don't listen to unsolicited advice.🤰🏼 I have days where I feel invincible, and days like yesterday and today where I don't get much sleep and can barely function. I know people who are loving pregnancy, and people who are hating it. People who LOVE their bodies, and people who are struggling. People who feel relaxed, and people who are anxious about everything. I've realised that usually the people who offer up unsolicited advice think they're being helpful. Usually they were worried about a certain area and so they want to share their experiences to ease your worries, but what they don't realise is that it's an area you weren't even worrying about. Plus, they're the 10th person to offer advice on a different topic of pregnancy that day. It's the equivalent of us walking down the street and every person we pass stopping to earn us of a different danger we might encounter based on their own fears. "If you trip over the pothole you might break your leg", "someone might run a red light and run you over", etc etc. It turns out it's the opposite of helpful, and they're more likely to plant doubt or anxiety in our minds. Please don't give advice unless someone asks for it, no matter how good your intentions are. ❤️ I just want to say, to myself as much as anyone else, however you're feeling and whatever you're going through, through the good days and bad days, you're doing great and we got this. 💕💪 PS: It's got to a point it's more comfortable to wear a bra than not wear one as my boobs feel so heavy now they seem to rest against the top of my bump. This @bravadodesigns is my current go to for comfort in the day. I've got it in black too, and can thoroughly recommend it (it was gifted to me but I'd buy them myself). 👙 #26weekspregnant #positivevibes」10月3日 3時45分