Ashley Jamesのインスタグラム(ashleylouisejames) - 4月30日 18時19分
I saw this quote once, and it's really stuck with me: "worrying does not take away tomorrow's troubles, it takes away today's peace". 🤍🤸🏼♀️
I think it's normal for worries to come into your head ahead of big life changes - especially when it comes to having a baby. I mean it's probably the most permanent thing we can do.
You can end jobs, relationships, friendships - just about anything. But you can't walk away from being a parent. Of course that's going to be overwhelming. Even if it's just worrying about the logistics or hoping you'll be good enough.
I had so many worries ahead of having Ada, but I kept catching those thoughts and reminding myself: 99% of what you worry about won't happen.
I found being in my pregnancy, I had so many pragmatic thoughts. Like I won't do this or I will do that.
But actually, the moment she was here - maternal instinct kicked in and the pragmatic stuff just didn't seem important.
The things that have been challenging, we've figured out along the way.
So if you're worrying - about anything - hope this serves as a nice reminder to stay in the present. And to just trust that you'll know what to do if and when you need to. 💪
Be a warrior, not a worrier! 🤍🙏
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