Gaby Dalkinさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Gaby DalkinInstagram)「Ok here’s what I’ve learned about IVF…. Last year we decided to start the IVF process. Early December I started all the drugs, did the trigger shot, went in for my retrieval, sent those embryos out for testing and then put them on ice (or ski camp as I like to call it) Fast forward almost a year later and we’ve had 1 semi-traumatic miscarriage (the miscarriage itself wasn’t traumatic and one day when I figure out how to share what happened without TMI I will), 1 failed transfer, 1 chemical pregnancy and now we’re out of embryos. So much of the IVF content that’s online is people getting their success. And that’s amazing to see for so many people, but it’s also not everyone’s realities. Many many moons ago, pre-poppy, I posted about how we live in a world where everyone seems to know everything about everyone’s business but here’s the thing, we never know what anyone is going through, what their plans are or if they even want kids. It’s a tough question for a lot of people, so just something to consider before asking. This is just a gentle reminder that the “bun in the oven” “you should have another” comments can sting for many. I’ve developed such a thick skin the last 5+ years of our fertility journey, maybe it’s even too thick, as I’m not afraid to throw our struggles back at someone to hopefully increase their awareness and sensitivity to the subject. All this to say, you never know what’s happening in someone’s life! So maybe be thoughtful about the questions you ask, regardless of who you’re asking.🤍 This is my update. Sending big love to anyone else going through the same thing. This whole journey certainly isn’t linear」11月7日 11時00分