アギーのインスタグラム(aggie) - 11月28日 20時00分

Don’t worry, we’re not broken up, but I was recently reflecting back at the things that made us separate. if you’re going through a tough moment in relationship, perhaps these are worth considering.

1. DOWNPLAYING THINGS IMPORTANT TO EACH OF US. There were things that were important to me, but I thought I can live without. Sure, I could for a year or two, but not long-term.

2. THINKING ONLY ONE PERSON IN A RELATIONSHIP CAN DO THE WORK. If one person is growing and the other one is not, it’s really hard to connect. It’s not a question of. It would be nice. It’s a question of: It is absolutely necessary.

3. FORGETTING WE HAVE A SOUL CONTRACT. ❤️ Jacob🤴🏼 came into my life, and he is exactly what I need to become the woman I was meant to become the moment I start to change him or wanting him to be different. I lose the magic of now.

4. UNDERESTIMATING HOW RELATIONSHIP WITH OUR PARENTS HAVE IMPACT ON OUR CURRENT DYNAMIC. Becoming self aware, has been very helpful into getting closer.

5. FEELING SHAMEFUL ABOUT OUR PAST. Shame lives in secrecy. The moment you share something heavy and difficult and unlovable and your partner is still there it makes you feel really loved.. Fixing this last made us get back together.

What else would you add? #relationship

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