ジェームズ・ヴァン・ダー・ビークのインスタグラム(vanderjames) - 2月27日 02時43分

One of the most cringeworthy phrases I hear, little dude... is, “Be a man.” Especially when it’s said to young boys, because the message is often: “Be tough. Don’t cry. Suck it up. Act like nothing effects you.” To me... that’s just empty posturing. Being a real man means being strong enough to be empathetic. To be sensitive. To be caring, kind, and confident enough to appreciate and nurture your feminine side. If you start with that as a base, all that other stereotypically “manly” behavior (none of which is exclusive to males, btw) might just accomplish some good. But in the meantime... it’s okay to be a boy. ❤️

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michelematoushekpropes Wow! You pretty much made an amazing career start out of the emotional crying! Good thing you didn’t listen or you probably would not be such an amazingly popular actor, Father and Husband! I still can’t get through watching Dawson ugly cry, without balling myself!

john_stieler You really are John Moxon :) great words and direction for any dad, present or future.

kylesjo Yep! This is the message at my all boy high school too 👍🏻

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shmanguez Loved reading this 👌💕 @del_mar44 @libagates

kristilynn9 Raising a teenage son myself, yes yes yes!!!

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