ギャランス・ドレさんのインスタグラム写真 - (ギャランス・ドレInstagram)「Well, I guess the good side of putting on weight is the part about the butt!!! 😂 . I’ve been really trying to stay conscious and happy, to accept my body where it is as I’ve put on about ten pounds. We go through different phases in life and acceptance, and a sense of humor is essential. . As women, we’re taught to look at our bodies with so much shame. When I hear my men friends talk about their body, I feel an ease that most women don’t have. . For me it started at 11 when my boobs showed up (yes it’s early and yes I wasn’t ready) and get all sorts of comments on my changing body, which shocked the girl I was into an angry teen. Add to that the ambient culture telling us what beauty is (changes over the years, always seems unattainable) and bam you’re in for the ride of your life. . Thing is that all these voices can be screens that prevent us from having an intimate relationship with our bodies. Whether it is approval or disapproval, wether we’re in body positivity culture or fitness craze - and whatever diet is going on at the moment - all this is just noise that scrambles the signals our body is trying to send us. . Thing is : our body knows. . So I am learning to listen to it - which is why I accept it might take a little time to get back to a weight where I feel entirely comfortable. To feel what feels good and honor that with a lifestyle that works for my body and soul. To make my own rules because if they are made thoughtfully and with love I think they actually help. To stay away from sugar is a wonderful one for me, as an example. . No woman was made to stay at the same weight constantly and I wish we were reminded that more often - as with more acceptance comes better health. Women change sizes all the time, even in a month! In a life, we’ll have different moments. I have had a few of them. Some came at more sensitive times and my automated response was self-hate. But mostly I have always felt good, attractive, loved. Just more or less bouncy 😂 . Beauty is an aura, beauty is alignment. Beauty is love. . . PS this is the other side of my bedroom! The black (awesome) dresser is from @bludot」5月14日 0時50分