サラ・ポールソンのインスタグラム(mssarahcatharinepaulson) - 5月17日 08時34分
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nkedge.designs
@lauragracec I’m sorry, I should’ve clarified: I support abortion in the case of rape, incest or life threatening pregnancy complications. No woman should be forced to carry a child that was conceived without her consent, and she definitely shouldn’t have to carry a child that could potentially endanger her life. What I will say though, with the utmost compassion and respect, is that when the child is conceived willingly, expected or unexpected, that unborn child is a living thing and is the mother and fathers responsibility. If they aren’t ready to care for it and provide for it, then they should give it up for adoption. The adoption/foster system is imperfect, yes, but if there is even a fifty percent chance that the child could be placed with a supportive family that will provide for them and help them live their best life, then that option should be chosen. That fifty percent chance is absolutely everything. Trust me, I think about that every day. So I’m conclusion, no, it is not a black and white issue, and I definitely see the exceptions where abortion is simply necessary, but while I respect what you’re saying in a general sense, I cannot support it in anything but those exceptions when I know there is a better way. Just my two cents though and I respect your views.
nkedge.designs
@weareinthis2gether That is fantastic. I wish more young mothers had the same emotional strength and tenacity you demonstrated. I am the son of a very young mother, probably 18, though I never knew her. She was in a similar situation as you as far as I understand, minus the parental support or monetary means to raise a child. She had a tough choice to make: abort me, or put me up for adoption. She put me up for adoption, and it was probably the best choice she could’ve made. Almost twenty years later, I’ve lived a pretty comfortable life considering my beginnings, and that is why I cannot feel right advocating for abortion except for in extreme cases like rape or pregnancy complications, because I am living proof that even though it doesn’t always work out, the adoption system can work miracles for the children whose birth families could not give them the necessities for life. Because of that, I personally can’t advocate for abortion when I know that, though it’s not perfect, there is another perfectly good option that doesn’t mean trading one life for another. I respect your observations though. Our views are shaped by our life experiences, and I admire your tough decision-making quite a bit. Though we may be in different sides of the debate, you have my utmost respect.
nkedge.designs
@xyphine People like you who simplify the argument down to a “men vs women” thing are the reason why we cannot have productive discourse about the topic in the first place. I firmly believe that abortion is not the best option. I believe that it is valid in cases of rape or pregnancy complications, as a mother should never be forced to carry a child she did not willingly conceive. However, when the child is conceived consensually, whether expected or unexpected, it is another living creature with the same rights to life as its mother. What about that is so hard to understand for people like you continues to bewilder me, and your flimsy counter argument shows insecurity with the fact that I could be right. Abortion is a viable option, but only selectively. It should never be the first resort, and it definitely shouldn’t be the first result for dealing with an “inconvenience”. Period.
yurysmoak
@thanos.butthole It’s not even about life style convenience. It’s about the fact that forcing pregnancies can KILL young women and adult ones too. Hence why no man nor woman has a right to take any choice away from anyone. Keep bitching all you want. I am against abortions many are. But the idea of removing the choice factor from anyone whether convenience or not. It’s not your mother fucking problem. You aren’t gunna pay for that kids medical bills or the mothers who if poor will send them directly into the street the kid into the foster system and if they’re lucky enough to be thrown in that abusive cesspool. No matter what try to give an excuse to force this on someone there’s no right reason for a stranger to involve themselves in a woman’s LIFE choice. Specially a god damn boy.
weareinthis2gether
@nkedge.designs o understand. My son is my life and for me, being both mentally and emotionally sound, coupled with two extremely loving parents and brothers and sisters who were able to help me create that “village, ” which a child of a teen requires. I just know how many come into this world unwanted and suffering. She made a selfless decision and perhaps one I would have made had I come from different circumstances.
I appreciate your willingness to share and agree to disagree. This sort of dialogue is so crucial. We will never come to together if we can’t find a way through honest communication and decency towards one another. We all move through life with a story, which informs much of how we see our world. Best of luck to you.
nkedge.designs
@kristinmc23 I’m sorry, I should’ve clarified. I support abortion in cases of rape or pregnancy complications. No woman should be forced to carry a child conceived without her consent, and she definitely shouldn’t have to carry a child that could endanger her life. Those are the exceptions. But in a general sense, excluding those exceptions, the child’s life is equally as important to the mothers as is the child’s chance at a life. As a child of adoption, I simply cannot support abortion in a general sense when I know that there is another way for a mother not ready to raise a child that doesn’t end the child’s life. There are exceptions, if course, but as a general rule of thumb abortion shouldn’t be the first option.
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