エヴァンジェリン・リリーのインスタグラム(evangelinelillyofficial) - 7月19日 15時55分
My partner concerns himself over our kids’ physical safety but not so much their emotional safety. I concern myself with my kids’ emotional safety but am pretty loose about their physical safety. Is this a male/female thing? 🤔🤔🤔 .
What is your experience?
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imvevasco
I don't have a child, but I think as a ypung child, they must be protected mostly from physical pain, cuz of their physical vulnerability for they do depend on their parents solely. As they gain consciousness, parents must be careful and observant to both physical and emotional health of their kids, cuz if unfortunate things happened and the impact is so bad, it might affect their personality and the way they communicate to others, hunting them for the rest of their lives and molding them as they grow into someone they THOUGHT they're supposed to be. Every individuals in a generation has their own battles to fight, and their parents its their duty to protect and help theri kids to have strong foundation, so that when tge time comes that they will fave the world on their own, they will know how to take care of themselves both physically and emotionally because their dearest mom and dad has taken good care of them and loved them so much. 🤗🤗
ladyemeline
It's been the same in our family, although, I worry over everything. Part of that is me as a mom, but part of it stems from mental issues I deal with. I just want them to grow up without the problems I had so they have confidence and healthy self esteem. They're AMAZING and I want them to believe it. It's so challenging learning the ever-changing ropes of parenting. I always doubt myself, but I keep trying. Having an emotional disorder adds an extra stress, but my kids are growing up with an acceptance of mental illness that I didn't have growing up. Really, we all just do our best and hope they turn into reasonably productive members of society that remember to be kind. Ultimately, they're going to be who they were born to be and it's never quite what we expect. It's better.
miketheryan
From my experience as a father of two little girls - I try to balance my protectiveness of both their physical & emotional health. My dad raised me to ignore or at least make light of both physical & emotional pain. I have a strong threshold for both. I resented his lessons as a child, but as a man I appreciate him teaching me that - they helped me survive a lot of hardships. For my kids though, I want them to know that it’s okay to feel hurt or afraid because it’s going to happen regardless of how protective I am. I also want them to know that strength can come from pain and fear. As a parent, I would never want my kids to hurt, but I want them to be prepared for any of the hardships that life tends to throw at us.
bruxcat
A psychologist here. You need to fall so you can learn that failure and pain is part of life. Suffering and trauma should not be. So a 'good enough' parent will let their kids explore and expose themselves to situations where physical and emotional pain is a possibility. AS LONG as the risk doesn't includes obvious and permanent damage (a broken arm, emotional scarring). At the end of our job as parents, what we want is our children learn to recognize the dangers by themselves and prepare as much as possible to avoid the damage and also to develop their ability to get back on their feet. That's only possible by, gradual exposition, learning to deal with pain, frustration and disappointment.
_akshay_tawari_
It all comes down to the way we have evolved and the genes that we carried over the years! In these times we can choose someone with a lot different Gene pool than in earlier times due to restrictions of geography, technology and segregation. Most women are empaths and are emotionally more receptive and that's one of the reasons women are more expressive, most of the damage to womankind has been done by defining, criticising and the persecution of their expressions, but it still persists and always shall for life can only bloom in it's abode! You could say the male/ female thing is the rule...but there are always certain exceptions to the rule!😃
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