Vanity Fairさんのインスタグラム写真 - (Vanity FairInstagram)「Before she disappeared in the spring of last year, Jennifer Farber seemed to have everything she wanted: a handsome Greek American husband, five young children, and mansions in Connecticut. When Farber disappeared in 2019, suspicion immediately centered on her handsome and manipulative husband, Fotis Dulos, and press coverage almost exclusively painted her as a missing suburban mom. But reducing the 50-year-old’s life to a familiar tabloid trope missed so much of her story. Like many women whose lives are outwardly perfect, Farber’s marriage had secrets—Dulos was an Adonis, but he seemed far from the man he pretended to be, and the series of actions he took in the year since Farber’s disappearance could not have proved that more. But another secret was that Farber was deeply ambivalent about the pursuit of a socially appropriate life. This was partially her ironic Generation X attitude, of course; almost everything one wanted, in her demographic cohort, had to also be not wanted. But with Farber, her true needs and desires were even more complicated. “I am the kind of person who looks at other people’s lives and wonders if I could have what they have,” she wrote in a 1998 essay. “Later I would try on a series of men, figuring out how their lives looked on me, sometimes having to alter my contours to force this appealing new entity to fit like a trace over my own self.” Read more at the link in bio.」10月26日 0時02分