吉川めいのインスタグラム(maeyoshikawa) - 10月7日 20時30分


It’s such a delicate matter to begin to gain awareness around one’s own mental narrative. Especially the ones that are on repeat, that you’re unknowingly clinging to in spite of the fact that they’re not working for you.

For me, this was the misaimed question: Why?

When my mother was diagnosed with a rare neurological disease and doctors gave her “statistically speaking, ten years left to live, tops,” I couldn’t stop asking “Why?”.

Why her?
Why us?
Why this?
Why now?
Why is this happening to me and my family?

I was in my late teens and early twenties at the time.

It took me three whole years to realize that this type of thinking was not serving me at all, it was making me sick. Eventually, I chose to let this mental narrative go—for the sake of my own health.

It’s a wonder how I had never asked:
Why not her? Would it be okay if it were someone else’s mom?
Why not us? Would it be more acceptable if it happened to some other family?
Why not this? When have humans ever chosen disease?
Why not now? Would it somehow be more okay if she were 97 and not 47 when the disease started??

🎧Please listen in on my conversation with @liskjenny host of the Widowed Parents Podcast and @widowedparentinstitute .
▶️Link in stories & also Linktree from my bio.

I know it sounds like the podcast might not have anything to do with you if you’re not widowed, or perhaps not married or don’t have kids. But nothing could be further from the truth.

Because the truth is,
Death comes to us all.
It means that ALL of your loved ones will one day die, and so will you.
And nobody knows when, or in what order.

The solution:
START LIVING LIKE YOU’RE READY FOR THAT TRUTH.

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