Ilana Wilesのインスタグラム(mommyshorts) - 7月16日 12時26分

I had to post a family shot from Visiting Day since I won’t have another for a bit! Someone on my stories asked me how I created such fearless kids. I honestly think it’s because both Mike and I have always liked to sit back and watch what our kids can do. I guess it’s the opposite of helicopter parenting. Even when they were babies. I have a video on Instagram from way back that some of my long time followers might remember. It was Harlow walking down the stairs for the first time. She must have been about 1 1/2. People were both shocked and impressed that I let her do it. She even wobbled a few times which could have been disastrous. But she found her balance and made it down on her own. I don’t usually think of myself as a very good parent. But that’s one thing I can do. Wait for my kids to really need me before I step in. And know that if they fall/fail, that’s a valuable lesson too. // On a separate note, I’ve been having some issues with the Mommy Shorts newsletter, which I’m working to resolve. In the meantime, if you want to read my latest posts, the link is in my bio! There’s a great one about analyzing Mazzy’s summer through the camp photos they send nightly. Check it out!

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mommyshorts @mrshouser2011 I never judge others! I also think there are tons of benefits to a more protective parenting style- making your child feel safe, close to you, etc. I’m just saying this is the style that i used and how I think my kids benefited from it. It does not take away from anyone else. Also, Harlow slept in my bed for the past two nights and I slept in her bed the night before that. Every aspect of my parenting does not fit one style.

designerhigh5 As an early start educator, I wish more parents raised their children with a bit of space. These are the children who thrive at school. And not in the sense that they are necessarily academically smarter, but in that cope better with not figuring things out right away, lot less meltdowns, stronger problem solving skills, more inclusive to their peers. You’re raising socially and emotionally strong children which is such a gift. ♥️

mmck0724 I lean toward this style as well, but my husband is a little more of a hover-er. My youngest especially is very independent and the type of kid who learns his limits through failure. So while I’m not going to let him get super injured, I do have to let him test and figure most things out for himself. He’s also my sweetest cuddle bug and still sleeps in my bed with me sometimes.

mypeanutadventures Before bed I was showing my 6yo some of your stories he was amazed. I explained that Mazzy’s at sleep away camp blew his mind and he asked if when he goes his little sister can come with them. It looks like Mazzy is having a blast but also wished a little bit her little could be with her. Wish/hope it stays this way forever ?.

mrshouser2011 @unfoldingem I've heard them referred as the same thing by parents 10 yrs older than me. I guess that's why I thought she was referencing them both in one net. I have no issue letting my child explore & discover the world. I love being there to watch & when he looks at me for answers he knows I'll be there.

kaylamariexo I have a similar parenting style and get judged quite frequently for it ? my daughter learned to walk at 10 months and was doing stairs by 1 and the internet trolls were freaking out about it. People really need to focus on their own parenting instead of placing so much emphasis on others...

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